Was this guy just after sex?

I don't know what age you are but you sound quite young and in need of a good friend that you can talk things over with. Don't allow yourself to be used by guys just because your lonely. This guy was only looking for some fun and your looking for a bit more commitment. Try and wait until you find the sort of guy that wants you for you and not use you for his own needs. If you make it too easy then guys will use you. Its in there blood, they cant help it. If its on offer they help themselves with no thought for the other person. Your better than that and you know it so take control of your life and I hope you find someone who will value you and treat you right. Good luck X